The current marriage and love market is really in a state of drought. Some boys have been single and can’t find a girlfriend, while other boys are not only dating a girlfriend on the surface, but also have many backups secretly. choose. So these single boys, have you ever thought about why you are still single today?
Below are the 6 reasons why boys are single summarized by the editor. Let’s see how many of them you win.
1. Be lazy and stay at home
Work is 996, life is 886.
In addition to commuting to and from get off work every day, the rest of the time is spent working overtime at the company, or staying at home to sleep, watch TV shows, eat snacks, use Douyin, and browse Taobao.
Your friends want to invite you to dinner and shopping, but you are too lazy to go out.
I asked you out through hard work, and you showed up in a tank top, pants, and slippers, completely regardless of your own image. Although you said you wanted to fall in love, you were very real in your heart.
2. Busy with career
The thing more important than falling in love is getting rich, which is one of the major events in life.
Before meeting true love, work hard to make money.
You can buy what you want by yourself, without asking for money;
You can go wherever you want to go at any time, without waiting for others to buy a ticket for you;
When you feel down, at least you still have a group of friends around you.
Thinking about it this way, being single is not as scary as you think, and it’s not bad to be busy getting rich.
3. Small social circle
As I grow older, I find more and more that the resources around me are There are fewer and fewer, and the standards go from low to high and then to low. In the end, I still haven’t found the right partner.
Apart from colleagues and old classmates, there is no other way to meet new friends. Being single is not my original intention, it is really due to the current situation.
Sometimes I think that love is not a necessity in life, so it is better to be alone.
4. Too Buddhist
Love will come when fate arrives. It must be that my fate has not arrived yet, so there is no need to worry.
However, the strange thing is that these Buddhist people have not waited for their own love.
Because, when true love comes, they will also have difficulty catching it because of their Buddhist nature.
5. Like to be alone
I like quietness, simplicity, and solitude, and cannot be disturbed by the outside world. Disturb your own peace of mind.
Eating alone, watching movies alone, and shopping alone, as if all things can be solved by one person.
After getting used to this state, I gradually fell in love with this feeling.
Because I am excellent, I am single.
6. Emotional intelligence is hard to heal
No matter how many new friends of the opposite sex you meet, you still can’t forget your ex and find it hard to let go.
There is no space in my heart, and I cannot accept or want to accept the existence of another person.
The so-called single means that you cannot accept the next person to take over the position of your predecessor in your heart.
As everyone knows, the best medicine to heal emotional wounds is new love.
