Date chatting may seem fresh and interesting at the beginning, but as time goes by, the content of the chatting may become increasingly boring. How to deal with this situation?
Looking for common topics
In a blind date chat, we can find common topics by asking about the interests and hobbies of both parties. For example, if both of you like traveling, you can talk about your favorite travel destinations and travel experiences; if you are both lovers of literature and art, you can talk about your favorite movies, music, and books. Once you find something in common, you can use this as a starting point to start an interesting chat.
Telling stories and gossiping
Human beings naturally like to listen to stories, and gossip is a part of human society. necessity. In a blind date chat, we can deliberately challenge each other's curiosity, find some fun and interesting stories and gossip, and share it with each other. For example, you can talk about extraordinary experiences you have encountered, or news related to celebrities in the gossip. In this way, even if you can't find common topics, you can enhance mutual understanding by telling stories and gossiping.
Don’t be superficial
In blind date chats, sometimes we will unconsciously be superficial and talk about topics that are not in-depth. For example, talk about the weather, the time, or just rattle off your favorite movies and music. At this time, we should overcome inertia and try to communicate in depth. You can truly explore each other's inner world by asking some open-ended questions, such as future plans, opinions on work and life, etc.
Find interesting ways to chat
In the process of dating and chatting, we can create a variety of interesting ways to chat. For example, you can play some small games to relax the atmosphere, such as guessing riddles, guessing words, etc.; or you can choose some interesting topics and design a question and answer session by yourself to achieve the effect of mutual understanding. When the chatting method is full of creativity and vitality, even two people who have no common topics at the beginning are likely to establish resonance in this atmosphere.
In a blind date chat, the understanding between two people is constantly improving. Therefore, if there is no way to continue some topics after chatting for a long time, there is no need to be too entangled. After all, they are not very familiar with each other. . As long as you can relax your mind and make appropriate breakthroughs in creativity, I believe you can bring enough fun and surprises to your blind date and chat.
