I heard many friends around me saying that they want a mature relationship. So the question is, what does a mature relationship look like? In your opinion, what is a mature relationship? The editor today Let me tell you my own opinion first and see if it is what you think.
Many people understand mature love as: understanding him\her, understanding him\her, not disturbing him\her, and Or obedient...actually none of these.
I remember that when I was in junior high school, my feelings were very childish and simple. You must know the QQ password and be connected. You must not chat or have contact with anyone of the opposite sex in the class. If you look at it twice, you will get jealous. One or two nice words were enough to coax me into thinking. I thought I bought breakfast a few times just because I loved it so much.
Is this a mature love?
Everyone must know that it is not.
So what is a mature love?
In my opinion, a mature love means that you can do your thing even if we are together, and you can do your own thing even if we stay in the same space. You can also play with you and I can play with mine. We don’t need to keep talking and chatting all the time.
There is no need to focus on the other person all the time. When a boy has dinner or socializing, what he wants is for you to say "Don't drink too much" and I will take you home after dinner. , instead of you asking who or which boy or girl you are dating, the boy can tell you the time and place, but please don’t be too worried or suspicious.
Mature love is not about buying a few packs of auntie towels when her aunt comes, and then telling her to pay attention to her health and drink more hot water. .
What you have to do is to accompany her and take care of her emotions. You think you are doing her a good job by buying a few packs of towels. In fact, this is far from enough. It is impossible not to give in a relationship.
It’s not that she doesn’t eat breakfast, it’s not that you give her a glass of milk or a few pieces of bread and you feel that you have done a good job, and you may feel a little proud and confident in your heart.
You should tell her the disadvantages of skipping breakfast, as she will feel uncomfortable if she skips breakfast, and then help her develop the habit of eating breakfast.
I think this kind of love is what everyone wants, what do you think?
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