Many boys and girls have a good text chat, but once it comes to voice calls, their true colors are revealed. Because they are nervous and can’t say a word for a long time, and they fall silent after less than two sentences, then chat with girls through voice calls. What can avoid being cold-hearted?
1. Maintain a good attitude
When you make a voice call with a girl for the first time, you should maintain a good attitude. Otherwise, something might go wrong accidentally. When you invite her for the first time, she may be rejected. This is normal. Don't be discouraged or lose confidence. Then you may have missed it.
The core of chatting is that you can’t talk about everything you see, but you must learn to observe girls. See what she's interested in. For example, if she catches a cold, be sure not to let her drink more water. She knows this. You can ask her how she got the cold and if there is anyone around who can take care of her. This not only shows that you care about her, but also makes her feel like you are a considerate person. Doing this can bring you closer and increase communication between you.
2. Opening topic
First of all, think about what you want to say before making a voice call. This way you can avoid getting cold feet at the beginning. For example, if the other person likes watching movies, you can chat with her about the details of the movie or interesting things that happened around you. If you are afraid that you will forget the content while chatting, you can plan it on paper now. You can write as detailed as possible, and there will always be nothing wrong.
Many boys have voice calls with girls they have met, and they usually start with: "What are you doing? Are you busy?" This is too boring. I think a better opening line is to ask about the topic you talked about last time or the scene when you met. For example, when I meet you for the first time, you wear long braids. This will make a girl think that you are very attentive and pay attention to her. It's much better than your first sentence, "Are you busy or not?" And the opening is unconventional.
3. Show your charm
When the other person no longer rejects you, you can slowly exchanges in other areas. It can be life, personal interests, etc. What you need to pay special attention to at this time is not to talk about some annoying things at work. This will make girls feel that you have a lot of negative energy.
You should try your best to show your charm and attraction points, and create a comfortable and happy atmosphere for girls. In this way, she will have a deeper impression of you. Of course, don't deliberately show a sense of humor. If you are not a particularly funny person, I advise you not to do this.
4. Actively end the voice call
The correct thing is to wait for the other party to end the call. But there is no topic to talk aboutWhen the time comes, you should take the initiative to end the call. The reason cannot be too perfunctory or embarrassing. You can say that a colleague is looking for you or someone is knocking on the door, etc. If you want to chat with her often, you can prepare a few more reasons.
These techniques can not only help you find topics, but also increase the relationship between you. I believe that through today’s sharing, you should know how to voice chat with a girl next time.
