Many boys don’t even know what to talk about when chatting with girls, let alone upgrading the relationship. Today I will share with you some universal topics in chatting to help you smoothly enhance your relationship when chatting with girls. .
1. Please enter the urn
"Please enter the urn" means to set a simple setting in your chat Small obstacles, such as when a girl asks you some common questions: "Where are you from?" It's a bit awkward to answer directly.
At this time, you can actually reply to her: Who do I look like? This subtly introduces a new topic. People who can keep the topic going are people who can chat.
Think about whether your usual chat with the other party is a straight line of one question and one answer. The straight line between the two points is the shortest, so it ends quickly.
Turning it into a curve can increase the length, and turning it into a maze is more interesting. So it can be summed up as "guess?" + the topic she is interested in.
2. Share status
I know that many boys attach great importance to logic and rationality and will not expand topics and Humorous chat, what topics can you communicate with the other party without offending?
For example, the purpose of chatting in the early stage of acquaintance is to eliminate a girl’s defensiveness towards you. If you talk about topics such as family and childhood, , most girls will not pick up the fight.
You might as well take the initiative to share your status at the moment, and then ask about her status, "I just finished eating, how about you?" At this time, if the girl replies to you: Just finished eating, not yet Eating or eating, no matter which way it is, do not make comments!
Some friends will say casually: You are eating so late! Nonono, I know you are caring, but in the eyes of girls, you Is this evaluating them? Are you teaching her how to do things?
Most people don’t like people they just met to evaluate their lives, so they can only accept the next sentence. "Yeah", or refuse to comment, "It's okay, it's not too late."
Is this the reaction you usually get when chatting? So what is the correct approach? The correct approach is She is mainly anti-customer, and you can decide what her reply involves.
When she talks about food, if you ask her to recommend dishes, you will not only learn about her favorite tastes, but you will also not let her feel guilty about being Embarrassed by asking about privacy. Note that this is asking you to ask about food, not to talk about it, so don’t get into trouble.
A healthy chat should be like you and your friends chatting about everything, and there are appropriate topics for different periods of getting along.
When the other person likes you, she will definitely rely on youIf she never takes the initiative to find you, she may be interested in you, but she may not like you. Whether we can be together is a matter of probability. Chatting skills can help you increase the probability.
